Thursday, July 14, 2011

Raising a "Husband"

The other day I walked into my kids' bathroom and KA-BOOM!  Stuff was everywhere.  Eye care stuff... tooth brushes... tooth paste... deodorant... Holy Cow!  Most of it was from my oldest.  So I lovingly, yeah right, called him to come clean up the mess.  Which was promptly met with a "WHY"?  I happily responded with a "Because..." but then added, "because, one day your future wife will thank me."

Huh?!

That's right.  In the mist of all this parenting stuff that's what I am raising, a future husband.  I think as moms we forget that's what we're doing raising future men.  How do they treat others?  Is that the behavior of men?  I had a friend tell me, how her son doesn't do chores because he claims none of his friends have too.  WHAT?!  Lord, help that future wife. : )

We are still a year from our oldest being a teenager.  But, if the past 12 years are an indication, it won't be long before I'm wiping tears from my eyes as "Here Comes the Bride" is being played.