How to Deal with Anger?

I'm at a loss.
How do you help someone to see the whole world isn't against them?
That everyone is not going to hurt them?
When a smile is the best way to greet a situation?
Why is my son so in battle mode?
Is it ADHD?
I'm so defeated and exhausted in trying to build him up while teaching him that maybe that wasn't the best way to handle to things.
When is it going to click?  When is know that anger will never win friends or battles?
When? When?

Dropping Shoes

I'm waiting.
Do you hear it?  It's the sound of a shoe slowly falling... dropping.
We've hit a new high at my home.
Things are going so well.
In fact, I've become so boring because I have nothing to ponder, wonder about... worry.
My husband was the commander of our "pillow talk" last evening.
Instead of me, cutting in and detailing my concerns of the day.

Believe me, I like this place.
I'm just not use to being IN this new place.

Now, how do I staple that shoe to the ceiling?